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Sometimes people hurt you– it happens.
What about when you hurt others?
Do you really want them to obsess over it, think about it all the time and hold it against you? Or do you kind of just with they’d forgive & forget.
You didn’t really mean it right?
Maybe you were just having a bad day.
Yup, we all have one of those every now & again.
Best it we all just
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It’s admittedly very good advice, even if hard to follow when one is “wounded”.
HOWEVER… No Joey meme as part of the post?!? For shame; fail! 😀 😀 😀
Silk… IKR?!? There have been countless times I wish I could use more recognizable and appropriate photos but still I don’t understand image/ copyright laws. Honestly I don’t have the time to research them.
I get gun shy just pulling images off the web because well… you never know. And while I realize pretty much everyone does it— alas, I am such a rule follower! It’s crippling. 😆
I accept my failure with grace. Please forgive me, fuhgettaboutit, and please oh please give me another chance! 😂
As I understand it, something like a meme, or a clip of audio or video that’s under 30 seconds constitutes “fair use”, particularly if you’re not making money off of it. Credit at least should be given though, of course
Good to know. Thanks Silk!
Excellent thoughts 👍
Thank you Dulcy! Be blessed
Sometimes it becomes really difficult to forget. What to do then?
Follow your insights,
This post is about dealing with the petty offenses we have to deal with on a daily basis. The ‘not-to-bad’ daily grind stuff. In any relationship conflict will arise. No one of us is perfect and we are bound to say and do things we shouldn’t. Same for the one we are in a relationship with.. no matter what the relationship is: husband/wife daughter/mother sibling/sibling boyfriend/girlfriend and so on. These petty offenses should not be held onto. Forgive them and forget them.
If you are having a difficult time forgetting petty issues, then that offers you the opportunity to do some soul searching. So to answer your question What to do then? Look inside. Looking into the mirror is the most difficult thing for most of us to do. But I assure you the answer to your question lies within.
Now… in a very more serious matter like say abuse (mental, physical, emotional, and or other types of abuse) a person should seek professional help immediately. I am not professional help and this blog post isn’t addressing those types of issues.
I was looking for answer to this question and you solved it.
Thanks ❤️ for that.
🤗 ❤️
“To hurt someone physically or mentally result in pain
*&* ill feeling towards the guilty manifest *&*
sometimes fences can’t be mended
at other times forgiveness happens
through an apology or some goodwill by the guilty party.”
_-Van Prince
Yes Van, well said.
Forgiveness isn’t for the one who needs to be forgiven it is for the one who needs to forgive. It offers a certain amount of self healing. Be blessed! 🤗
100% right you are=your wisdom is a freedom that is awesome!
Thank you Van Prince!
You are mind-catching with your brand of creativity!
Well, I’ll Take The Fifth
I Respectfully …
Wil. Thanks for stopping in… even if you feel the need to plead the fifth!
Forgiveness is a tough one.
I just always go back to “forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us”
It is interesting the way that it is worded. Almost as if in our forgiving of others that’s when we receive the forgiveness we so desperately need.
And I myself am in desperate need of forgiveness.
Be well today and thanks so much for commenting!
Holding grudges is never good for a person, forgive and forget a nicer way to be.
True!
Yes .. very valid point.. 😊
How r u
Thank you Manish.
Good today- finally got some good sleep! 😀 ready to tackle the day.
You?
That’s great…🤗
My day is going good..
Great take on looking at other peoples’ mistakes. Your posts are always inspiring!
Thank you always Wardah! ❤️
You’re welcome! ♥
Really awesome. Valid point.
Thank you Muralikrish!
Thanks!
Welcome!
You are sooo right Beck. We all make mistakes. Good post!
Thank you Cindy!
You are so welcome Beck! This better not go to spam. Thanks again for your nice comment this moring on ASSUME.. might we Assume.. W.P. made an ass out of you and me… 🤣 not funny actually.. so maddening.
😂 😂 😂
I am really good at making an ass out of myself. Almost always. Without fail!
Lol Beck!!!! You crack me up!!! 🤣😜🥰! I often do the same. No wonder we are “friends”… ha!
you are most welcome!!!
Good advice, Beck! it’s too exhausting to carry grudges around! <3 Cheryl
Yes it is! ❤️ 🤗 thank you Cheryl!
These are good thoughts.
Thank you AJ!